I remember it like it happened yesterday. I was 19 and hanging out at the mall with my friend Jason. As we were leaving the Suncoast movie store, I saw her; a beautiful blond girl walking with her friend. I was dumbfounded by her beauty and couldn’t take my eyes off of her. She was the type of girl that makes a guy start imagining what married life would be like. She walked right by me and I didn’t say anything.

Minutes later I was kicking myself because I was to afraid to talk to her. I told myself that if I saw her again before my friend and I left the mall, I would talk to her.

Minutes later, I saw her again. She walked right by me. Again, I said nothing because I was afraid. What was I afraid of? I was afraid she would find me unattractive, afraid she would laugh in my face, afraid of making a fool of myself in front of my friend. My friend and I left the mall and literally for months afterward I kept thinking, “What if?”

That was one of the many reasons I became fed up with my fear and decided to change; to become more courages with girls. You can do it too!

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