Many girls want what they can’t have. This is one of the major truth’s when it comes to flirting with girls. Want proof? Think about all the times that you liked a girl, hung on her every word, was there whenever she needed you – and you became her friend, not a boyfriend, just a friend. Now think of that same girl and her boyfriend. Remember how you noticed that he didn’t give her the kind of attention you did? Well, that was probably one of the reasons she was with him. She saw value in his attention because it was rare; well rarer than yours anyway.

The next time you find yourself in that “we’re just friends” situation, remember that girls want what they can’t have. So, you shouldn’t always make yourself available for her. While you’re at it, stop paying so much attention to her too.

Here’s an example:
If she calls, answer the phone but cut her off about a minute into the call and say you’ve got plans and have to go. Don’t give her an explanation. Just say you’ve got to go but you’ll call her later and be nice about it. Oh, by later I mean two days later not two hours later.

By giving her less attention you, you make yourself more appealing. Why? Because your attention is a rarity; it’s supply and demand. Gold is worth so much because it’s rare. The same goes for you and your attention.

A recent comment by a new visitor got me thinking about this. As a guy, it’s generally a good rule to let the girl break that personal barrier and initiate the first touch.

If you touch the girl before she is ready, she could not only be turned off by it but she might also think you’re weird or worse, a pervert. So it’s usually best to let her touch you first.

There are exceptions to this that usually come in the form of certain body language from the girl. But that is a topic for another post.

I caught a sneak peek at the first episode of VH1’s new reality show, The Pickup Artist last night. What’s my first impression? It’s really good!

The show is about eight regular guys that live together. Over the course of eight episodes, the men will learn the ins and outs of how to pickup women. Mystery (weird name but cool guy), the host of the show, teaches these average guys how to turn the women of their dreams into the women of their reality.

For those of us that need some encouragement and some really good advice, be sure to watch this series. You can watch the series premier tonight (Monday, Aug. 6th) at 9 PM EDT.