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Comment on How to start a conversation by Bard

Bard — Tue, 27 Jan 2009 04:08:16 +0000

thnx for the tip’s Klarity… I will keeo them in mind, & give you the feed back soon… If all goes well, I’ll send you a copy of my card. “haha” Cheer’s

Comment on How to start a conversation by Klar1ty

Klar1ty — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 04:37:58 +0000

Brad,
I must admit that the whole coupon on the window idea sounds pretty corny, although most of the time the best conversation starters are those that are corny and encourage laughing. (Although make sure you leave your phone number or some way for her to contact you, otherwise the whole idea is a waste)

I think that you’re idea would be a good idea. Just keep striking up conversation with her when you have the chance, but make sure you don’t seem clingy. Girls like it when a guy isn’t TOO easy to get. They don’t necessarily like going for guys that are hard to get, but just make sure that you give them something to work for.

I guess my point is, keep trying to talk to her, but don’t bug her constantly. Make her laugh, but make her smile as well. In other words, you want to be funny, but you also want her to think your sweet.

Good luck and let me know how things go.
Regards,
- Klar1ty

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Comment on How to start a conversation by brad

brad — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 05:55:14 +0000

hey.. I read through various comments, and found many of them interesting and helpfull, although I have a different situation I havent seen here… there’s this girl who works behind the med’s counter in a pharmacy, and I see her every now and then when i pick up my personal med’s. I always say hello, and have very brief chats while i pay the bill. I called the farmacy the other day and she answered the phone, and I told her that I liked chatting with her, and asked how her day was going.. She replied, and I also got her to laugh, and I asked her if she would like to have a cup of tea someday on her break, but she answered that she was very flatered, but she could not go out with a customer; that its a small town; and also that her boss would not like that. But she also said for me to drop in and say hello now and then . So what should my next step be ? I realy want to have a chance with her, but dont know what to say… I was thinking to leave a coupon on her car window, saying “valid for one free coffee with Brad” Any Ideas ?
thanx

Comment on How to start a conversation by Silver

Silver — Mon, 19 Jan 2009 13:56:53 +0000

Hello!

I have a that kind of problem, that I’ve met a punch of beautiful girls and I have also started to talk to them during some parties and birthdays and so on. And I’ve also added them to the MSN to keep talking them. And almost everytime when I start conversation in MSN I’m facing a problem. What to ask, how to start a conversation? Regular control questions are boring, example “How you’re doing?” “What intresting have you done lately?” and so on. My question is that how I can make this conversation more intresting and also I somehow can give him tips that I like him? This is too odd, when I talk to him and few days later I call him out? Regularly in small places, example small parties where I meet new girls I can almost everytime start and conversation, the other question is that how long this conversation lasts. I ask a punch of questions and the conversation takes nowhere.

And my other question is, when I meet a girl in internet and ask him MSN and start talking to her what should I do? I do know a few things about the girl, but maybe they do not want to talk about it. And also when I ask them a little question example “What music you lissen?” they do answer to these questions and they almost never do not ask that from me.

So how I can push the conversation in that way, it also would be intresting?

I have had a girlfriend, but still it is hard to start to new girls…

Comment on How do I start a conversation with the cute girl at the front desk of my gym? by Chris

Chris — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 22:13:11 +0000

Ok, I’m 15 and there is this girl that I have liked for five years. It isnt like she doesnt know I exist but we arent that great of friends(partially because I get embarased when talking to her). But here is the real kink in the plan, she has a boyfriend and they are on and off every week. I have no idea what to do, any advice?

Comment on How to start a conversation by tommy guns

tommy guns — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 11:04:33 +0000

let me start by saying this site is a great idea, iam taking this college course its only 3 weeks long and this is week 2 theres this girl in class she sits across the room from me occasionaly we’ll look at each other but not smiling just looking at each other, i aint no brad pitt but i think i have a shot at her iam just no good at striking up a convo. class is like 3 hours long an we have like a 15 minute break in the middle so I think that would be my best window everybody walks to the caffeteria and she usuallly takes her time leaving class and i’ve never noticed any of the other girls running over to talk to her so good chance of being alone together, i was thinking of trying the old you look familiar are you from xxx, and in troducing myself first because weve never spoken or been “introduced” So like hi my names tommy guns ive been trying to figure it out but I recognize you from somewhere you didnt go to xxx h.s. did you? I am no expert but i think that would work, but then wat if she goes no i didnt go there, end, do I elaborate and say we’ll were did you go to h.s. cuz this is gonna annoy me until I figure it out we’ll that work or should i just walk away and cut my loses
Any help greatly appreciated thanks

Comment on How to start a conversation by fenrisulf

fenrisulf — Mon, 12 Jan 2009 18:09:28 +0000

All right i have this problem…
recently, i have never care about my personal apperance anad never do nothing about it( am not saying that i looked dirty or something like that) until i decided for personal reasons that i couldnt live me life that way that i have to shut peoples mouth so i hiresd a personal trainer and i have been in the gym since two months ago i also start going to a nutritionist to give me a diet for muscular mass development and i a feeling the results, i am also going to the dermatologist to get rid of acne, so calculating ‘im gonna be over in like 3 months more, now there is this girl that i only talk to her one time years ago when i was a fat ass in 9 grade, now that im inthe university, i want to talk her again in 3 months after my changes are finished but i need a really good excuse to talk to her i know what she i had been studying her she lovesd kung fu panda, i know the music shse likes, i know she really hyperloves her dad, she likes musicians i am one, she likes leo messi and cristiano ronaldo (football players) she loves certain clothes too shes kinda shy but even with all of dthat i have great problem i can onlysee her in the hallways or in the cafeteria how am suppose to talk without being obvious???? give me example plz…

Comment on How to start a conversation by John

John — Sat, 10 Jan 2009 12:13:39 +0000

Very nice. To help those that, as me, have problems talking to girls I recommend an iPhone application called SpeechBubble. It provides a very funny way to have a motive to start conversation with a girl. Check it out here:

http://itunes.apple.com/WebObjects/MZStore.woa/wa/viewSoftware?id=301348978&mt=8“SpeechBubble

Comment on How to start a conversation by John

John — Sat, 10 Jan 2009 12:13:09 +0000

Comment on How to start a conversation by Bryan

Bryan — Sat, 10 Jan 2009 06:11:51 +0000

the girl i like walks with me everyday from school and i try to flirt with her but it wont last long then i will usually be interupted but i can get around 3 min of alone time with her and i just screw that time off she thinks im pretty cool she told me O my god i know i can do this! i know i can i just dont know how!!!