Archive for August, 2007

How to know if she wants you to kiss her

Tuesday, August 28th, 2007

Knowing when to kiss a girl and when not to kiss a girl can make or break a potential relationship. Many guys just don’t know when they should lean in for that first kiss. We think, “Does she want me to kiss her? Will she be offended if I tried? Will she knee me in the junk if I went for a kiss?” Well there’s one sure giveaway that will tell you that she wants you to kiss her. I call it the “look.”

The look is usually brief, subtle, and very simple. She simply shifts her eyes from yours and looks at your mouth for a split second then looks back at you. That is a sure sign she wants to kiss you. It’s as simple as that.

When she looks at your mouth she’s giving you an unconscious signal (body language) that she wants to kiss you. Subconsciously, she’s imagining what it’s like to kiss you. So when you’re out on that next date pay close attention to her, especially when you’re saying goodnight, and watch for the look.

Battle of the Babes: The Results!

Friday, August 24th, 2007

The winner of this week’s Battle of the Babes contest is…

Danielle!

Battle of the Babes: August 22, 2007

Wednesday, August 22nd, 2007

Ok guys it’s back, the weekly Battle of the Babes contest! Last week I only had two voters who voted after the poll was closed. Let’s try not to let that happen again. So cast your vote in the comments area below for the girl you think is the hottest! I’ll announce the winner this Friday.

Danielle

Above is Danielle. She is an 18 year old freshman at Florida State.Danielle likes guys with nice teeth. That should be a good enough reason to get you to floss on a daily basis.

 

Amber

Here is Amber. She is 24 years old and a senior at Cleveland State University.

Amber prides herself on being a tomboy. In fact, she has plans to go to an upcoming truck pull competition. Under normal circumstances that would make her a redneck but I’ve never seen a hot redneck. Therefore she can’t be one, right?

There you have it guys, your two contestants. Cast your vote in the comments area below!

How to get a girl interested in you

Tuesday, August 21st, 2007

Many girls want what they can’t have. This is one of the major truth’s when it comes to flirting with girls. Want proof? Think about all the times that you liked a girl, hung on her every word, was there whenever she needed you – and you became her friend, not a boyfriend, just a friend. Now think of that same girl and her boyfriend. Remember how you noticed that he didn’t give her the kind of attention you did? Well, that was probably one of the reasons she was with him. She saw value in his attention because it was rare; well rarer than yours anyway.

The next time you find yourself in that “we’re just friends” situation, remember that girls want what they can’t have. So, you shouldn’t always make yourself available for her. While you’re at it, stop paying so much attention to her too.

Here’s an example:
If she calls, answer the phone but cut her off about a minute into the call and say you’ve got plans and have to go. Don’t give her an explanation. Just say you’ve got to go but you’ll call her later and be nice about it. Oh, by later I mean two days later not two hours later.

By giving her less attention you, you make yourself more appealing. Why? Because your attention is a rarity; it’s supply and demand. Gold is worth so much because it’s rare. The same goes for you and your attention.

Women’s greatest turnoffs

Monday, August 20th, 2007

Hey guys!

Whether you work or go to school, I hope your week has gotten off to a good start. I found a good blog post over at PlanJam.com that gives a brief overview of what many women consider turnoffs. There are some things that are left out of the post that I’ll expand on in the future. However until then, read the post by clicking here.

How to deal with competition from other men

Friday, August 17th, 2007

Have you ever been hanging out with your girlfriend at a party, turn your back for a minute, then notice that some guy is talking or flirting with her? I’ve been in that situation, along with many other men. There are only two types of men; those that have had this happen to them and those that haven’t yet.

So there you are. You watching some guy flirt with your girl. What do you do? I’m about to tell you.

First, remain calm
The last thing you want is to look insecure, nervous, jealous or angry. Showing these emotions will make you look insecure – read unattractive. You don’t want your girl thinking that she’s dating an insecure pansy or someone in need of anger management. Remember, you might feel these emotions, just don’t show it. Remain calm and act cool like it doesn’t bother you at all.

Walk up to your girl and the guy
Casually walk up to your girl. The keyword is casually. You don’t want to run or timidly walk over to her. Walk as you normally would walk if you were at the mall.

Begin a short conversation
Once you’re by your girl, continue acting casual. For the first few seconds only look at your girl, don’t even acknowledge that the guy is there, smile at her and ask if she’s having fun. Once she answers, look at the guy and be sure to smile. Introduce yourself to him by saying something like, “Oh hey, I’m so-and-so,” and shake his hand. Next look at your girl and apologize for interrupting by saying, “Oh, I’m sorry. Am I interrupting something?” Make sure you sound sincere. Nine times out of ten, the answer will be no. She might say something like, “No but so-and-so (the guy that’s talking to your girl) was telling me about…”

Leave the conversation and walk away with your girl
Now here is the part where you leave gracefully with your girl. Once you get a response to your question, “Am I interrupting something,” it’s time to make your move. That move should be to end the other guy’s conversation. To do this, you need to say something to the effect of, “Oh, OK. Hey babe, I want to introduce you someone.” Then look at the guy and say, “Hey man, it was great meeting you.” Shake his hand one more time, hold your girl’s hand and leave.

Again the key to this is to remain calm and act casual. Now I know that the situation may not go as smoothly as my example. What if the guy is a real jerk and is overtly flirting with her right in front of you? What if your girl says she doesn’t want to leave with you?

These are good questions and I have my answers to them that I’ll post at a later date. Right now I would like my readers to weigh in on the subject. What would you do in any of the above situations?

Afraid to talk to girls: an example of what not to do

Thursday, August 16th, 2007

In the immortal words of the band Queen, “another one bites the dust.”

On VH1’s The Pickup Artist, Spoon (that’s his picture on the left) quit the contest. If you haven’t been watching the show, start now! It’s full of great advice about how to approach girls. But I digress.

Did you catch what I said? He didn’t get voted off, he quit. He became so scared about approaching and talking to girls, he walked away from a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. Interestingly, the episode ends with Spoon saying that he has become more courageous and he feels like a changed man. Sadly, he’s lying to himself.

But we’ve all been guilty of that same thing. We’ve all been so scared that we want to cry but also punch something at the same time. Spoon could have overcome his fear; he just didn’t have the strength to do it. Correction, he had the strength. He just didn’t believe he had it.

But you do have the strength. What I want you to take away from this post is that you should never give up; never let the fear overcome you. The next time you see a girl you want to talk to, in the mall, at school, wherever, tell yourself that you refuse to succumb to fear. Go up to the girl and start a conversation.

You can do it!

And the winner is…

Wednesday, August 15th, 2007

The results are in and Clarice wins!

OK, I’m kind of disappointed. Out of all the visitors during the past two days (over a hundred in all), no one voted. Not one person. Pity, I thought it would be fun.

Since no one voted, the winner was decided by the flip of a coin.

Congrats Clarice! (Yes, there is a hint of sarcasm there)

Battle of the Babes!

Tuesday, August 14th, 2007

OK guys, it’s time for the first “Battle of the Babes” contest! Here’s how it works:

I’ll post a picture of two different girls and you vote for your favorite by typing in the girl’s name in the comments section below. It’s a simple contest of which girl you think is better looking. I’ll announce the winner on Thursday. Remember, keep your comments clean. Any comments that contain profanity will be deleted and the vote will not be counted. OK, here are the contestants:

Lauren
She’s 21 years old and is from North Carolina.

battle of the babes

Clarice
She’s also 21 year but is from New Jersey.

battle of the babes

Which one of these lovely ladies will win? Cast your votes in the comments below guys! The winner will be revealed this Thursday!

Babes love geek stuff too!

Monday, August 13th, 2007

warcraft babes at blizzcon 2007
This is for all you guys out there who don’t think hot chicks play video games. I know that they exist because I’m dating one of them.

warcraft babes at blizzcon 2007
It just goes to show you that you can find a babe that loves to play games. I mean if this bad Chuck Norris look-a-like can get one…